Why staying single is stupid

August 10, 2024
Why it's dumb for a man to stay single
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You should not stay single

In one of my YouTube videos, I talk about never telling a woman you like her, especially early on in knowing her.

It removes all mystery and can make her lose attraction to you fast. Common sense advice if you ask me.

Someone left the comment:

“Just stay single. I meet up with the lads every couple of weeks. We all feel the same about women. They’re just not worth the effort.”

This is a loser mindset.

There’s three things all men should work on acquiring in life:

  1. A great physique.

Having muscle, looking healthy, and feeling energetic is one of the best feelings in the world. Men look up to you. Women admire you. And every chance you get to see yourself in a mirror, you obviously go for it because why not - you’ve turned yourself into a chad.

  1. Financial stability.

Not worrying about bills, randomly buying a $250 pair of sneakers, going on vacation, and not sweating over what your checking account looks like after a small shopping spree is heaven. You want to be in this position. You want savings. You want to be able to invest into your IRA each month and comfortably pay off a mortgage.

  1. A cute normal girlfriend you can bang any time.

Some guys have it extremely easy in getting women. But most men, I’m talking 95%, have to go through tremendous hoops to finally land a great girlfriend.

Instead of wasting time playing RPGs all day, treat life like an RPG. Acquiring a high quality woman who you can trust and sleep with often is a great prize. Companionship is a worthy thing to pursue.

Hanging “with the lads”, having a few beers, and moping about how terrible life is sounds like hell. You’re better off working on your game, leveling yourself up in life, and chasing money, muscle, and women. It’s challenging but rewarding and a way better use of your time than being an incel with the homies.

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I'm a men's dating coach with over 300,000 social media followers and 25,000+ email subscribers. I’ve coached hundreds of men from all over the world and helped them with dating, relationships, and self-improvement.