Why 'Don't Ask a Fish' is Terrible Dating Advice for Men
Why "don't ask a fish how to catch a fish" is a dumb dating platitude
During my many years of being a female dating coach, I hear one insult constantly on the internet:
"You don't ask a fish how to catch a fish, you ask a fisherman how to catch a fish."
Let’s go over why this is one of the stupidest mindsets to have.
Before you make any major moves in life, there’s one thing you should seek out.
Advice.
You want information from as many data points as possible.
Are you thinking about buying your first house or a new property?
Well here’s who you should talk to before making any moves:
People who recently bought a house People who recently opted out of buying a house Real estate agents Mortgage lenders And anyone else you can think of involved in real estate Why talk to so many people?
To gather as much knowledge as possible to make an informed decision.
You want to cover every angle and detail before moving forward with your action.
The same goes for dating.
Take good advice wherever it's coming from.
Do you really want to only be listening to the 6”1 chad on how to attract women?
Dating for him is on easy mode.
What works for him might not work for you.
A skinny guy who is 5”7 will have far different experiences compared to the 6”1 chad guy.
And some women are able to give out brutally honest advice and tell you exactly what attracts and repulses them.
Don’t get me wrong - there’s also some garbage tips coming from female dating coaches.
“Just be your authentic self.”
I have no idea what that means.
“Tell a woman how you feel.”
Avoid this at all costs.
“It’s okay to be emotionally available to her.”
Not after two dates!
There’s some very bad advice out there.
That’s why I keep it as real and brutally honest as possible.
You need to have several data points of information and keep what works while scrapping what doesn’t.
Mix in your own experience to sift out the bullsh*t.
Don’t live life based on stupid sayings like "You don't ask a fish how to catch a fish, you ask a fisherman how to catch a fish."
Life isn't a platitude.
It's a complex moving mechanism that requires constant adjustments.
Consume as much knowledge as you can and make an informed decision based on intelligence and experience.
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