How to Stay Engaged and Desirable as You Age
How hobbies can make you more attractive as you age
A friend of mine has a grandmother.
About 10 years ago, her husband died.
And since then, for literally 10 years, all she has done is stay home and watch tv.
Her only real hobby while her husband was alive was tending to the husband.
Once he passed away, she basically had nothing to do with herself.
After 40 years of marriage, she developed zero hobbies and interests.
So now she just watches tv waiting for death to come.
I know plenty of men like this as well.
No active lifestyles, zero high quality hobbies.
This is not the way.
You need to be living a fulfilled and colorful life full of soul.
Here’s some ideas:
- Having a side business
When you have some kind of side business where you’re prospecting, completing projects, chasing money, and dealing with people, this will keep you alive and happy.
Even if it’s not making you a crazy income either.
What business is that exactly? You’ll need to do the research.
I would imagine a sales job could do that. As long as you have a decent voice, doing sales over the phone comes with a lot of excitement.
If you really want a huge project, you can create some kind of feminine product like a moisturizer, get a shopify store up, and learn how to run ads on social media accounts to sell said product.
Why a feminine product?
Women are huge consumer spenders compared to men.
This is a massive undertaking but you’ll be busy and never bored.
If you’re a decent writer and have an interest in something, you can start a blog and social media presence talking about a specific topic.
All of the above can be cultivated for decades, slowly growing, and giving you more meaning and purpose in life.
This is much better than watching tv into your old age and rotting away.
- Getting jacked as possible
I see plenty of older guys at my gym likely on TRT lifting all the time, talking to people randomly, and obsessing over their bodies.
This is another great hobby to have that will keep you fulfilled well into old age.
Just watch out for wear and tear to avoid injury, supplement properly, and get enough sleep so you’re recovering well.
- Religion
Being part of a big religious community where there’s events, gatherings, and weekly services is a great way to increase your level of happiness the older you get.
Every week you have a reason to dress up, put on a fragrance, and socialize with like minded people.
And you’ll meet the occasional women.
- Volunteering
I’m part of an animal rescue organization. When you really involve yourself in the nonprofit world, things can get tremendously busy.
From fundraisers to being in the trenches helping dogs, there’s never a dull moment.
If there’s a cause you really like such as helping veterans, working with the elderly, or saving animals, make that your purpose.
Reach out to an organization and see how you can help.
Doing nothing your entire life is unacceptable.
There’s so much you can be involved in that will give you purpose and excitement.
And of course there’s women.
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