Relationship Advice Inspired by 'Love is Blind UK'
Do not be weird or creepy with women - it will backfire...obviously
I’m watching a show called Love is Blind UK.
It’s a group of singles who live in a house for about two weeks that’s separated by gender.
They have dates behind pods unaware of what the person they are on a date with looks like.
After a bunch of pod dates, a guy decides if he wants to propose or not to a woman he has the strongest connection with.
It’s a reality show.
Obviously it’s a ridiculous concept for entertainment purposes but there’s one guy on this show who can teach you a valuable lesson.
He decided to propose to a girl he’s been on several pod dates with.
During the proposal, the girl says to him “I love you.”
The guy responds with “I think I love you too.”
What do you mean you think?
Why did you propose then?
At least pretend.
If a girl shows some level of verbal commitment to you, don’t leave her hanging.
It destroys her desire to ever be vulnerable with you again.
Why are you proposing if you’re not sure?
But that wasn’t the main issue.
This response definitely put her on guard that something was off with this guy, but she was a good sport and continued on with the next step of meeting him in person.
During the reveal after she said yes to the proposal, he kept saying:
“I need you to trust me. Trust me, ok? “
“You’re not gonna change your mind are you?”
“Don't change your mind now”
“What do you think, do I look okay?”
And as the door is about to close once he’s leaving the reveal area, he calls her out and says “Hey…I think I love you.”
This girl was freaked out, and rightfully so.
During the interview immediately after the reveal, she was shaken and said “this is dangerous territory.”
She called off the engagement right after.
She made the right move because dealing with this guy sounds like a full time job.
You’re supposed to add positivity and happiness to the person you’re dating, not take away their energy.
And with a guy so fragile, a serious risk that plays in a woman’s mind is that he might hurt himself if she breaks up with him. And trust me, no one has time for this type of drama.
All he had to do was say very little and pretend to be normal, for example “You’re beautiful. I’m excited to take this journey with you.” That’s it.
She already said yes to the engagement. He basically talked her out of it within 5 minutes.
His constant need for reassurance was chaotic and exhausting.
You never want to signal desperation and a constant need to know if someone likes you.
Go with the flow.
Whether she really likes you or not, who cares.
Just keep taking her out, present yourself in the best light, and whatever happens happens.
Do not beg her to inflate your self-esteem.
You must show you’re secure with yourself (even if you’re not).
Act like a prize and women will believe it.
This guy should have read my manual before going on this show and embarrassing himself.
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